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		<title>Comment on 12 Steps: The Forgotten Quackery? by Jim M</title>
		<link>http://www.saramayhew.com/blog/index.php/2009/09/12-steps-the-forgotten-quackery/comment-page-1/#comment-13700</link>
		<dc:creator>Jim M</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 29 Jan 2012 19:16:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>To Layla...I came in and out of AA because i didnt work the program...simply...i didn&#039;t want it...the solution to OUR problems are ALWAYS very very simple...the reason it works is because...I SUFFER A MALADY AND THE ONLY SOLUTION IS A SPIRITUAL ONE...in the big book it states...AA is a spiritual program of ACTION...in other words just do it...1.Dont drink 2.Got meetings 3.get a sponsor 4. be grateful....and 5. Help another person who need it...thats it after 27 yrs of drinking and drugging and hell i do the 5 things suggested here by AAers and my life is beyond my wildest dreams...but for some just not drinking is as good as it gets...not me...but remember I DRINK.....WE DONT that why i keep coming...i wish you well in your endevours...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>To Layla&#8230;I came in and out of AA because i didnt work the program&#8230;simply&#8230;i didn&#8217;t want it&#8230;the solution to OUR problems are ALWAYS very very simple&#8230;the reason it works is because&#8230;I SUFFER A MALADY AND THE ONLY SOLUTION IS A SPIRITUAL ONE&#8230;in the big book it states&#8230;AA is a spiritual program of ACTION&#8230;in other words just do it&#8230;1.Dont drink 2.Got meetings 3.get a sponsor 4. be grateful&#8230;.and 5. Help another person who need it&#8230;thats it after 27 yrs of drinking and drugging and hell i do the 5 things suggested here by AAers and my life is beyond my wildest dreams&#8230;but for some just not drinking is as good as it gets&#8230;not me&#8230;but remember I DRINK&#8230;..WE DONT that why i keep coming&#8230;i wish you well in your endevours&#8230;</p>
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		<title>Comment on 12 Steps: The Forgotten Quackery? by Jim M</title>
		<link>http://www.saramayhew.com/blog/index.php/2009/09/12-steps-the-forgotten-quackery/comment-page-1/#comment-13699</link>
		<dc:creator>Jim M</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 29 Jan 2012 19:10:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>thanks for the laugh...this is some funny shit...i used to be just like you...i knew everything about anything...and the fact is I know nothing about AA until I get there and stay there...i could attempt to tell you about it but you&#039;d be short changed...your ass has to be in the seat to EXPERIENCE the emotion...Now AA is a program of suggestion...like it is suggested you pull the rip cord if you jump...its no cult or anything of that sort and it is proven that it does work ask the millions of people who have successfully remained sober because of it...If you have a problem drinking check it out give it say 90 days if you dont feel better you&#039;ll have a lot money to go get drunk with...WE are self supporting through OUR own contributions AA is not allied with any SECT,DENOMINATION,POLITICS OR ORGANIZATION we wish not to engage in controversy OUR PRIMARY PURPOSE IS TO HELP THE ALCOHOLIC WHO STILL SUFFERS....anything said prior to that fact is hear say,guesstamation,speculative....and sadly probably from an alcoholic who still suffers...so good luck buddy...you be ready when your ready...p.s. thanks for the laugh its always the smart ones who are to stupid to get this simple program.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>thanks for the laugh&#8230;this is some funny shit&#8230;i used to be just like you&#8230;i knew everything about anything&#8230;and the fact is I know nothing about AA until I get there and stay there&#8230;i could attempt to tell you about it but you&#8217;d be short changed&#8230;your ass has to be in the seat to EXPERIENCE the emotion&#8230;Now AA is a program of suggestion&#8230;like it is suggested you pull the rip cord if you jump&#8230;its no cult or anything of that sort and it is proven that it does work ask the millions of people who have successfully remained sober because of it&#8230;If you have a problem drinking check it out give it say 90 days if you dont feel better you&#8217;ll have a lot money to go get drunk with&#8230;WE are self supporting through OUR own contributions AA is not allied with any SECT,DENOMINATION,POLITICS OR ORGANIZATION we wish not to engage in controversy OUR PRIMARY PURPOSE IS TO HELP THE ALCOHOLIC WHO STILL SUFFERS&#8230;.anything said prior to that fact is hear say,guesstamation,speculative&#8230;.and sadly probably from an alcoholic who still suffers&#8230;so good luck buddy&#8230;you be ready when your ready&#8230;p.s. thanks for the laugh its always the smart ones who are to stupid to get this simple program.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Sara&#8217;s Room by Robert</title>
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		<dc:creator>Robert</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Jan 2012 01:52:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>don&#039;t know much about the books. But that is a lotta pretty lady, with a desirable, drp-dd gorgeous smile.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>don&#8217;t know much about the books. But that is a lotta pretty lady, with a desirable, drp-dd gorgeous smile.</p>
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		<title>Comment on What is Manga? by What Constitutes a True Graphic Novel? &#124; The Voice of Heard</title>
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		<dc:creator>What Constitutes a True Graphic Novel? &#124; The Voice of Heard</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Jan 2012 00:51:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] people who like graphic novels to buy them.  I should also point out that this issue is similar to the labeling and marketing of manga (Japanese comic books), which is discussed on a couple of occasions by the American mangaka [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] people who like graphic novels to buy them.  I should also point out that this issue is similar to the labeling and marketing of manga (Japanese comic books), which is discussed on a couple of occasions by the American mangaka [...]</p>
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		<title>Comment on 12 Steps: The Forgotten Quackery? by Layla</title>
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		<dc:creator>Layla</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Dec 2011 18:08:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sara, I couldn&#039;t agree with you more!  My husband (soon to be ex) is an alcohol abuser who has been in and out of AA.  I have been to Al-anon and as I heard many say there, &quot;that&#039;s how the alcoholics are--they go in and out (of AA)&quot;.  I do not agree with all of the 12 steps, not because of the references to God or a higher power, but because ALCOHOLISM is a disease.  So why would working the steps and turning their “defects”over to God &quot;cure&quot; them.  Gee, wouldn&#039;t it be nice if one were to have  cancer that working a 12 step program would put the cancer into remission as long as they kept working the steps!?  If alcoholism is a disease recognized by the AMA, then shouldn’t it be treated medically??  Even if you&#039;d like to categorize it as a mental illness, still, there are medications for that.  I like the concept of AA as a support group and a source of ideas and sharing with others with similar issues, but I&#039;m sorry the 12 steps are a bunch of BS if you ask me.  It&#039;s sad that AA is the main (and in certain cases) the only option for alcoholics.  How a Medical Doctor, whose belief is based on SCIENCE, will send patients to AA, a group whose belief is based on FAITH is completely beyond me.  I am a woman of science.  I am a registered nurse and I look at things like the the pathophysiology of the disease.  There are, to put it into layman&#039;s terms, genetic differences in the make up of an addict&#039;s cells and metabolism.  How will working the 12 steps change the chemical make up of a human being?  In my opinion, non-medical 12 step programs and Alcoholism being termed a disease are complete contradictions.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sara, I couldn&#8217;t agree with you more!  My husband (soon to be ex) is an alcohol abuser who has been in and out of AA.  I have been to Al-anon and as I heard many say there, &#8220;that&#8217;s how the alcoholics are&#8211;they go in and out (of AA)&#8221;.  I do not agree with all of the 12 steps, not because of the references to God or a higher power, but because ALCOHOLISM is a disease.  So why would working the steps and turning their “defects”over to God &#8220;cure&#8221; them.  Gee, wouldn&#8217;t it be nice if one were to have  cancer that working a 12 step program would put the cancer into remission as long as they kept working the steps!?  If alcoholism is a disease recognized by the AMA, then shouldn’t it be treated medically??  Even if you&#8217;d like to categorize it as a mental illness, still, there are medications for that.  I like the concept of AA as a support group and a source of ideas and sharing with others with similar issues, but I&#8217;m sorry the 12 steps are a bunch of BS if you ask me.  It&#8217;s sad that AA is the main (and in certain cases) the only option for alcoholics.  How a Medical Doctor, whose belief is based on SCIENCE, will send patients to AA, a group whose belief is based on FAITH is completely beyond me.  I am a woman of science.  I am a registered nurse and I look at things like the the pathophysiology of the disease.  There are, to put it into layman&#8217;s terms, genetic differences in the make up of an addict&#8217;s cells and metabolism.  How will working the 12 steps change the chemical make up of a human being?  In my opinion, non-medical 12 step programs and Alcoholism being termed a disease are complete contradictions.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Sagan Day for Realsies! by Laur</title>
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		<dc:creator>Laur</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Nov 2011 19:43:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sounds pretty awesome. Your drawing style is pretty cute. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sounds pretty awesome. Your drawing style is pretty cute. <img src='http://www.saramayhew.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>Comment on &#8220;OEL Manga&#8221; Should Die by JJR</title>
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		<dc:creator>JJR</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Nov 2011 02:56:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sarah,
I basically agree, and your fellow Mangaka, Svetlana Chmakova (Russo-Canadian writer) makes basically the same argument in-story using a clearly audiobiographically based character in her series DRAMACON.

DRAMACON is a manga about Anime/Manga convention culture, specifically a group of friends who are artists and writers trying to break into the profession producing their own Dojinshi.  I love the series and wound up buying the omnibus edition in hardback.

I consider myself an Otaku, and to me, Manga is an artistic style, or range of familiar styles with its own visual language, etc.  I&#039;m a big fan of MEGATOKYO, which was ground breaking insofar as it has been translated from English into Japanese and sold in Japan.

I also like Anime dubbed into English--prefer it, in fact, especially if the story being told is an American or British one.  I become weary of my fellow otaku who dismiss all dubs out of hand with the blanket statement: &quot;Dubs suck&quot;...maybe in the 80s and 90s they had a point--yes, some of *those* dubs from *that* era were truly awful.  But since the early 2000s, I don&#039;t think that kind of blanket dismissal is really fair.  Some dubs are quite well done, and the success of quality English dubs has gone a long way to making Anime/Manga more and more mainstream and profitable and recognized and popular among young viewers/readers.  I&#039;ve started to branch out, but initially the only Manga I would read would be from shows I&#039;d already seen the Anime for.

I think there will always be purists among otaku who will always be dismissive of Manga written by non-Japanese and they are the same people who still diss dubs in Anime, no matter how well done...it will never be good enough for these folks.

As an amateur critic (I blog very infrequently about Anime/Manga), I will probably keep the distinction OEM/OEL, but I can understand why as an artist it is a no-win scenario for you in working with publishers.  

One small request/question...I am a listener of the Skeptics Guide to the Universe and heard your interview, and I have bought the iTunes versions of the Legend of Ztarr...but I am disappointed you haven&#039;t yet published this two-part Manga in print yet.  If the online version is a success, do please try to pitch it to an actual print publisher.  I would definitely buy it.

As it stands, I will have to wait until I buy my first iPad to enjoy your series (probably this Xmas).  It&#039;s a little to hard to read just on my iPhone at the moment, and I can&#039;t open it up in iTunes either--or if there is a way I haven&#039;t figured it out yet.

Anyway, wish you all the best and continued success in your artistic career.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sarah,<br />
I basically agree, and your fellow Mangaka, Svetlana Chmakova (Russo-Canadian writer) makes basically the same argument in-story using a clearly audiobiographically based character in her series DRAMACON.</p>
<p>DRAMACON is a manga about Anime/Manga convention culture, specifically a group of friends who are artists and writers trying to break into the profession producing their own Dojinshi.  I love the series and wound up buying the omnibus edition in hardback.</p>
<p>I consider myself an Otaku, and to me, Manga is an artistic style, or range of familiar styles with its own visual language, etc.  I&#8217;m a big fan of MEGATOKYO, which was ground breaking insofar as it has been translated from English into Japanese and sold in Japan.</p>
<p>I also like Anime dubbed into English&#8211;prefer it, in fact, especially if the story being told is an American or British one.  I become weary of my fellow otaku who dismiss all dubs out of hand with the blanket statement: &#8220;Dubs suck&#8221;&#8230;maybe in the 80s and 90s they had a point&#8211;yes, some of *those* dubs from *that* era were truly awful.  But since the early 2000s, I don&#8217;t think that kind of blanket dismissal is really fair.  Some dubs are quite well done, and the success of quality English dubs has gone a long way to making Anime/Manga more and more mainstream and profitable and recognized and popular among young viewers/readers.  I&#8217;ve started to branch out, but initially the only Manga I would read would be from shows I&#8217;d already seen the Anime for.</p>
<p>I think there will always be purists among otaku who will always be dismissive of Manga written by non-Japanese and they are the same people who still diss dubs in Anime, no matter how well done&#8230;it will never be good enough for these folks.</p>
<p>As an amateur critic (I blog very infrequently about Anime/Manga), I will probably keep the distinction OEM/OEL, but I can understand why as an artist it is a no-win scenario for you in working with publishers.  </p>
<p>One small request/question&#8230;I am a listener of the Skeptics Guide to the Universe and heard your interview, and I have bought the iTunes versions of the Legend of Ztarr&#8230;but I am disappointed you haven&#8217;t yet published this two-part Manga in print yet.  If the online version is a success, do please try to pitch it to an actual print publisher.  I would definitely buy it.</p>
<p>As it stands, I will have to wait until I buy my first iPad to enjoy your series (probably this Xmas).  It&#8217;s a little to hard to read just on my iPhone at the moment, and I can&#8217;t open it up in iTunes either&#8211;or if there is a way I haven&#8217;t figured it out yet.</p>
<p>Anyway, wish you all the best and continued success in your artistic career.</p>
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		<title>Comment on As Intellectually Dishonest as a Miss America Contestant by Evolutionibus</title>
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		<dc:creator>Evolutionibus</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Oct 2011 21:46:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Amazing post and blog. 

Really, the big problem is the misunderstanding between theory and myth and theory and hypothesis as well.

Regards and pleased to meet you. 

@carlosxabier</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Amazing post and blog. </p>
<p>Really, the big problem is the misunderstanding between theory and myth and theory and hypothesis as well.</p>
<p>Regards and pleased to meet you. </p>
<p>@carlosxabier</p>
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		<title>Comment on As Intellectually Dishonest as a Miss America Contestant by Nate Greene</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nate Greene</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 02 Oct 2011 05:09:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you very much for posting this. It was absolutely shocking. I like what Keith said above. I suppose it helps to remember that these women are in a contest that tests their political ability--the ability to please as many people as possible. It still made me groan over and over. I only thought a few of them were hot--the smart ones.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you very much for posting this. It was absolutely shocking. I like what Keith said above. I suppose it helps to remember that these women are in a contest that tests their political ability&#8211;the ability to please as many people as possible. It still made me groan over and over. I only thought a few of them were hot&#8211;the smart ones.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Box Full of Kittens by Generic Male</title>
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		<dc:creator>Generic Male</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Sep 2011 00:05:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I can definitely appreciate your position on this matter but would argue that people tend to trust old men with patches on their sleeves simply because there is an assumption that they have nothing else in their lives but to sit and think about things and by extension the thought &quot;surely this strange old man would have no significant other in his life, why else would he have those patches? He must know what he is talking about as he must have nothing else important in his life.&quot;

If you have beauty and intelligence, you will just have to accept that most people will not be able to reconcile this fact without getting to know you well.

Intelligence can compensate for beauty and vice versa, but if no compensation is required then people will put you into a deficit on one and since beauty is generally more obvious than intelligence you could argue that the first thing they will do is demote your intelligence.

&quot;Surely a girl this beautiful wouldn&#039;t need to think too much to make it in the world. How can I trust what she is saying when I can only assume she coasts through life on her beauty alone? Why would she ever need to think about things?&quot;

Obviously all my propositions are invalid, but it is how I think many people will be thinking in the context you&#039;ve described.

I generally feel that everyone is smarter than me. If I can understand something, surely everyone else can understand the same thing.

For the record, everyone I speak to starts off as smarter than me by default. Only you can change that by saying something I &quot;know&quot; isn&#039;t true. As a result you&#039;ll tend to hear me say &quot;cool, I&#039;ll have to look that up&quot; a lot. One, because it might be some interesting new thing I didn&#039;t know about and Two, because how could I trust what a box of kittens says to me :P

As far as I&#039;m concerned, and probably most of your male fan base, there is nothing more desirable than a pixie with a critical mind.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I can definitely appreciate your position on this matter but would argue that people tend to trust old men with patches on their sleeves simply because there is an assumption that they have nothing else in their lives but to sit and think about things and by extension the thought &#8220;surely this strange old man would have no significant other in his life, why else would he have those patches? He must know what he is talking about as he must have nothing else important in his life.&#8221;</p>
<p>If you have beauty and intelligence, you will just have to accept that most people will not be able to reconcile this fact without getting to know you well.</p>
<p>Intelligence can compensate for beauty and vice versa, but if no compensation is required then people will put you into a deficit on one and since beauty is generally more obvious than intelligence you could argue that the first thing they will do is demote your intelligence.</p>
<p>&#8220;Surely a girl this beautiful wouldn&#8217;t need to think too much to make it in the world. How can I trust what she is saying when I can only assume she coasts through life on her beauty alone? Why would she ever need to think about things?&#8221;</p>
<p>Obviously all my propositions are invalid, but it is how I think many people will be thinking in the context you&#8217;ve described.</p>
<p>I generally feel that everyone is smarter than me. If I can understand something, surely everyone else can understand the same thing.</p>
<p>For the record, everyone I speak to starts off as smarter than me by default. Only you can change that by saying something I &#8220;know&#8221; isn&#8217;t true. As a result you&#8217;ll tend to hear me say &#8220;cool, I&#8217;ll have to look that up&#8221; a lot. One, because it might be some interesting new thing I didn&#8217;t know about and Two, because how could I trust what a box of kittens says to me <img src='http://www.saramayhew.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_razz.gif' alt=':P' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>As far as I&#8217;m concerned, and probably most of your male fan base, there is nothing more desirable than a pixie with a critical mind.</p>
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